‘The Bachelorette’ Suitor Trash Talks Gabby & Rachel in Shockingly Vulgar Episode

A bizarre suitor on The Bachelorette blasted stars Gabby Windey and Rachel Recchia as b*tches and expressed more love for his dog on Monday night’s episode 4!

Season 19 is the first of the hit ABC reality show in which two women look for husbands. But in a shocker, one of the guys trash talked both beauties!

As the episode began, 18 guys still remained in the competition, including “Meatball,” who got a second chance from Rachel after rejecting her rose last time.

The ladies had decided to pursue separate journeys, so Team Gabby and Team Rachel were raring to go.

However, the guys were upset with Hayden for earlier hurting Gabby, 31, by telling her he was only interested in Rachel, 26, and that she was too “rough around the edges.”

In a chat with Meatball, Hayden insisted Gabby had called herself that, adding, “I don’t think I said anything wrong…well, b*tch, maybe you shouldn’t use that (f***ing) word to describe yourself, then.”

Meatball was appalled, telling the cameras, “He called [them] b*tches. It’s disturbing.”

Hayden also admitted he was comparing his ex-girlfriend to Gabby and Rachel and they didn’t measure up. “I don’t see how any guy in here can be like, ‘I’m marrying these girls,’ “ he said.

Later, host Jesse Palmer announced each bachelorette had chosen a guy for a one-on-one date—in Paris! The rest would be setting sail on a cruise ship in Le Havre, France.

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Who got Gabby’s third one-on-one date?

Investment banker Jason A. received the honor and walked around rainy Paris with Gabby. She thought he was a shy “man of few words” but was still drawn to him.

Gabby and Jason got their heads measured for traditional French berets and over dinner, bonded over their mutual sensitivity. Jason admitted it was hard for him to open up and said he was having a “breakdown” over the show’s stress.

Jason said he’d been through therapy because of not feeling he was good enough as a kid. The ICU nurse told him she’d also pursued therapy because of her estrangement from her mother.

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“He’s on the same life path as me,” Gabby exulted during confessional after their kisses. “I see a lot of myself in Jason.”

She gave him her date rose.

Who received Rachel’s third one-on-one date?

Contractor Tino F. got the nod and they continued building on their earlier attraction. The two cooked crepes together and shared a makeout session near the Seine. Over dinner, Rachel told Tino she’d previously had a boyfriend who hadn’t been supportive of her career as a flight instructor.

Tino said he loved Rachel’s passion for her work and shared that both of his parents had busy careers.

Tino and Rachel told each other they both saw a family in their future.

After receiving her date rose, Tino told the cameras he was “falling in love with Rachel.”

Later, Gabby hosted the rest of her men on a group date in a boxing ring, with Rachel and her team looking on.

But Rachel melted down when Gabby’s men lavished her with attention—while her dudes didn’t even make eye contact!

“No one cares,” Rachel cried to the cameras.

Who got Gabby’s group one-one-one date?

Spencer R. won the boxing contest and sat down alone with Gabby. Both had family members in the military which led to mutual attraction and making out. Gabby gave her group date rose to Spencer.

Meanwhile, Rachel scolded her men for ignoring her, appearing in front of them teary-eyed.

Rachel said in confessional, “I’m so done!” and even wanted to leave the show!

Who received Rachel’s group one-on-one date?

Rachel decided to move forward on a group date with French romance experts—who led her suitors through a series of flirting exercises that mostly fell flat.

But Tyler N. saved the day by reciting a romantic poem he’d written for Rachel and won her one-on-one time.

Tyler confided to Rachel a woman he’d bought a house for had dumped him but the experience had taught him how to love. Rachel was impressed and said she too knew what it was like to love hard.

“I want to be somebody’s rock,” Tyler said, also saying he would love to cook and clean for her!

She gave him her group date rose.

Sadly, Rachel didn’t know that Logan, another member of her team, was revealing in confessional that he was more drawn to Gabby!

As the rose ceremony drew near on the cruise ship, Logan didn’t know if he could accept another rose from Rachel.

During the pre-ceremony cocktail party, Hayden shared private time with Rachel and showed her photos of his dog, Rambo, explaining how the pooch had a brain tumor and only a couple of months to live.

Hayden stressed that he wouldn’t be there if he didn’t think Rachel was important.

As he talked about his beloved dog’s cancer, Tino cut in and asked for one-on-one time with Rachel, which she quickly granted.

Hayden indicated to the cameras he was upset about being so abruptly dismissed!

He told Meatball he was questioning if Rachel was right for him.

But Meatball noted privately that Hayden had “a history of saying mean, hurtful things. It’s unacceptable.”

In fact, Meatball told Rachel about how Hayden had “made a vulgar comparison about you and his ex. It was something about breasts [and]…I don’t trust these b*tches.”

Rachel was outraged and pulled Hayden aside for clarity. He denied comparing Rachel’s boobs to his previous gal pal and insisted, “I don’t speak like that.”

She didn’t believe him and said, “This is the end of my rope. Can I walk you out?”

Hayden walked down the gangplank and off the show, telling the cameras about his dog, “I want Rambo more.” He sobbed that he was ready to be reunited with his pet.

Who went home in week 4 of The Bachelorette? Quincey W.Kirk B.HaydenJordan H.

Related: Who went home last week on The Bachelorette?

Who’s left in The Bachelorette 2022?

Rachel’s guys Tino and Tyler were safe with earlier roses, and she gave the rest to Aven, Meatball, Zach, Ethan and Logan.

Having already cut Hayden, Rachel also sent Jordan H. packing.

Logan accepted his rose from Rachel without comment as he still yearned for Gabby.

“I feel selfish,” he admitted privately. As the episode ended, Logan vowed to tell Rachel he was interested in her co-star instead.

Team Rachel

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Gabby already had given roses to Jason and Spencer, who were safe. She awarded other roses to Nate, Erich, Johnny, Michael, and Mario. That meant she had eliminated two men, Quincey W. and Kirk B.

Team Gabby

JasonSpencerNateErichJohnnyMichaelMario How many men advanced to week 5?

After tonight’s elimination, 14 men advanced to week five.

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